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I haven’t posted in ages and have so many beautiful cakes to catch up on from members here. My 53 year old son Scott passed away on January 10th of liver failure and I have been so devastated that I have a hard time concentrating on anything. I have lost 3 of my 5 children in 7 years time, all in their 50’s. My first born son Randy at 51 in 2007, my oldest daughter Cyndy at 55 just a year ago in December and now Scott. I am hanging in there but have days where I seem to cry all day.

Shirley

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Shirley, you left me speechless. I cannot express how sad I am at your terrible news! So so sorry for your loss! I am a mother too and can understand how devastatd you must feel! I wish that I could find something to say to make you feel better, but alsa such wounds need time to heal, if they ever do!

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Am so so sorry Shirley, I think Marlene just said it all, its so upsetting to read what you wrote, you are a very very brave lady, no mother should ever have to experience the loss of a child but to have it happen 3times is beyond horrendous. Please look after yourself, sending you a very big hug Shirley xx

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Shirley, I’m devastated to read your very sad news. And for you, it’s been a loss of three!!! As a mother of three and grandmother of three, I cannot imagine the pain you must feel … Prayers and thoughts for you and your family for your loss. Sincere condolences.

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No mother should have to face losing a child – but to lose three must be beyond any pain I can imagine. I’m not surprised you have days of crying all day – you wouldn’t be human if you didn’t. I’m crying now just thinking of what you are going through. I hope you are getting help with coping with all you are suffering – no-one can deal with this sort of tragedy on their own. My thoughts and prayers are with you xx

Judy

Oh Shirley….I’m numb reading this. Being a Mom myself, I absolutely cannot begin to fathom your grief. I wish I could reach out and hug you, somehow ease your pain. I’m praying for your physical and emotional well being. I pray you are surrounded by supportive family and friends as well. 💔 💔

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Oh Shirley, I cannot even imagine what you are going thru. Losing one child is a devastating loss never mind 3. It is no wonder that you are spending your days crying. Like June, I hope that you do have plenty of support. Sending you a big hug.

My sencirest thoughts and prayers…

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Wishing you and your family prayers to help you cope with this tragedy. As a mother as well, that is our most fear, that someday we will not be able to hold our children close to us. They will never be lost in or memories! God bless you and your family.

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Shirley I’m so saddened by your story. I to am a mother and it is my worst fear, and you have lived through it 3 times. I wish you so much love and like jchuck said I wish I could reach out and hug you.

Wishing you love, peace and blessings. May you find comfort and healing in their memories and how blessed you were to know and love them.

Hugs.

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