re: Wedding cake debate...

I did my own… and look back, with pride…
If you are confident in your ability and planning… good for you!
It could always be done, or prep’d the evening before… and all of the decorations done in advance.
If it is going to make you feel stressed… get someone else to do it… it’s your big day… enjoy it!!!!

Julez, https://www.facebook.com/pages/Allways-Cakes/450634018350115?ref=hl