I may be crazy right there along with you, but I’m planning on making my own cake as well…so Id say “go for it!” I’m not getting married right away so sadly I cant tell you probably beforehand if I’m batty. But my plan is to make the decor way in advance and the majority of the ambiance will be from the table set-up itself (like pretty cake stands and decorations) with the cake and cupcakes (I’m a big fan of crazy amounts of cupcakes) being simple and pretty :] hope that helped at least a little bit, and good luck!! <3