Oh poor thing !!! If that’s the for the cake, just imagine everything else she’s putting up with … Hope she was allowed to choose her hubby-to-be !!! I would say have a one-on-one with her – if by chance there are any elements from the mothers ideas that can be brought into the 21st century, then give a nod to them if she really is THAT bad, but otherwise I’d give the ‘bride’ some air space to say exactly what she’d like. Gosh I feel for you, but well done on keeping the peace as well as you did so far – Good luck and I hope it turns out to be a great day for HER ! xx
Lou, S.Yorks UK https://www.facebook.com/SugarandSpiceGourmandise