re: Using too much butter

It depends upon how much frosting you like on a cake. If you torte the layers, it really increases the amount of frosting required. Four cups of butter (8 sticks) sounds about right for the amount of frosting I make for an 8 or 9 inch cake, but I usually have a little bit left over.

When you break it down into serving sizes, there is not really that much butter in each serving.

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