re: The first time I hated making an order

It is OK to say no!
I loved doing my “Asian tattoo” cake, as it was for my son’s best friend, who has visited my home a lot.
On the night, her mother asked if I would do one for her sister’s 18th… 3 tier with a pink superman design on one side and M&M’s design on the reverse side…
As an Aussie hobby decorator, I cannot profit from decorating.
I did not know the sister, hated the sound of the design, and did not want to spend days decorating for no profit…
So the request was answered with a simple “no”.
(It has taken me years of experience, to get to this point, but much happier now!)
Don’t let people take the fun out of your hobby. Enjoy it, doing what you love… ♥♥♥