re: Wedding cake debate...

I agree! If you want to make your own wedding cake; by all means, do it! I didn’t make my own; but my sister did AND she coordinated the entire wedding as well (it helps to have very organized family members too:). However, my cousin did all the baking for her…just an idea – have someone you trust bake your cake/cupcakes for you and all you have to do is the fun part…that might ease some of the stress anyway.

Chris